Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

Savage Lovecast Episode 1034
Savage LovecastSeptember 01, 2026
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00:53:50

Savage Lovecast Episode 1034

Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be? Now that chastity play its all the rage, should we assume that a key necklace means something deeply kinky?...

After Action Report #44
Savage LovecastAugust 28, 2026
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00:18:38

After Action Report #44

Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event." What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved. Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story....

Savage Love Episode 1033
Savage LovecastAugust 25, 2026
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00:51:56

Savage Love Episode 1033

A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them? A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult...

After Action Report #43
Savage LovecastAugust 21, 2026
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00:17:30

After Action Report #43

After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time. Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story. And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day. How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage...

Savage Lovecast Episode 1032
Savage LovecastAugust 18, 202600:59:22

Savage Lovecast Episode 1032

As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him? And last, when your five year old as...

After Action Report #42
Savage LovecastAugust 14, 2026
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00:20:42

After Action Report #42

Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really? It’s a journey… Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by Lean- a weight loss supplement that works by lo...

Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46
Savage LovecastAugust 13, 2026
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Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46

Sex & Politics #46 Can we really change? Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise ...

Savage Love Episode 1031
Savage LovecastAugust 11, 2026
1031
00:51:57

Savage Love Episode 1031

A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner? A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but bor...

After Action Report #41
Savage LovecastAugust 07, 2026
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00:15:59

After Action Report #41

What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out… Tell us about your brave excursion. Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love This episode  is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already us...

Savage Lovecast Episode 1030
Savage LovecastAugust 04, 2026
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00:52:49

Savage Lovecast Episode 1030

Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up? A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a three-way with another woman. But he doesn't wanna. How can she convince him to do the ...